Sunday, July 29, 2012

The Baby Cage

So when our son was born, we were given a pack'n'play.
We were  cosleeping so we didn't have a crib.
Now at 6 months (as of yesterday!) he's SO close to mobile. I need to get him out of our bed. And I need a place to contain him while I'm working. He really doesn't like the play pen, and neither do I. I think he doesn't like it because it's uncomfortable and confining. I don't like it, because the sides are too tall for me to comfortably lean over.
My Solution? To build a custom baby cage. Here's what you need.
Sturdy fabric for the corners


Netting (I used Nylon)
PVC pipes and corners
8 corners like this!
Quilt binding for easy finished edge
Here's my measurements. But you can obviously adapt this to whatever size you need.
PVC Pipe
Four - 42" pipes
Four - 30" pipes
Four - 18" pipes
8 corners
I used 1/2" piping, but feel free to use whatever size you want.
 
Use two separate pieces of fabric and pin the "sleeve" around the pipe to make sure it will fit.
 Make sure when you're cutting your sleeve fabric to leave at least an inch on both sides.


Like so.
Sew two relatively straight lines.

Fold in both edges of the sleeve to create a more finished edge.


I sewed two lines to hopefully reinforce it a bit.
 Ironing at this point might make it easier. Then fold over the edge of the netting and insert it into the side of your sleeve. Don't iron the netting. Just sayin'.
Try to make it so the netting is firm. I recommend testing out each side on the frame as you go along.
Once you have the netting sewed on, use the bias tape to create a nice finished edge for the netting.

To help create firm sides I made loops to secure the netting to the top and the bottom of the frame.

 I pinned them like this to make sure that they would fit around the piping.
Once you've put everything together...(if you want more instructions, just ask)
Choose some type of firm but comfy bottom for your baby cage. I bought a large piece of foam and draped a bed sheet over it.


Insert baby and VOILA!

 I like it because of a number of reasons. It's easier to get him in and out of his baby cage. Because it's just foam on the floor I can get in there with him to put him to sleep if necessary. I can take it apart easily. I can move it SUPER easily. It's very lightweight. It was relatively cheap.
The pipes and corners were just under $20 at Lowe's and with a little persuasion the gentleman cut them down for me to the exact sizes I needed
The fabric I bought at JoAnn's for around $30. I did buy at least a yard extra of each, just in case I screwed up. (good thing, because I did.)
I bought the foam pad at Smith's for $20. It was too long so I cut off about two feet of it. So now I have enough foam for some other project.
So all told I spent around $70 and 8-12 hours on it.

But best of all, my son tolerates being in it much better than the pack ' n' play. I think it's more comfortable and he likes that he can see me better. I think. Anyway it's tall enough that this should work until well after he's two. I do recommend placing it in a corner/between large heavy furniture so there's no chance of your child flipping the frame over and escaping. Or if you want it to be freestanding you could fill the bottom pipes with something heavy and seal them before assembling.
Do what you want. I did this over the course of one day (sewing).
So it's a fairly simple design with lots of straight lines. I definitely consider myself a beginning seamstress, FYI.

 And that's how you make a homemade baby cage.










Thursday, April 19, 2012

New places for posting

Instagram: Theturnipmiss
Tumblr: http://www.tumblr.com/blog/smudgeandcompany

I'm posting in both of these places more regularly, because it's faster.

The need to DO

In the last couple weeks spring has really settled in. I can tell because I'm feeling the need to accomplish something productive. So I've started two things.
A: I started an application to go to Grad School at the University of Utah. Possibly in Entertainment Arts... which translates over to animation in videogames.
B: I launched a Kickstarter project. http://kck.st/IRTZcc (BACK IT!!!)

Both of these might not pan out. Or they could both work out. And then I'd be insanely busy and wonder what on earth was I thinking?
All the meanwhile, my son is getting bigger and bigger. It's really amazing how fast they grow.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

A lot can happen...

I had a baby.

On January 28,2012 I gave birth to a beautiful little boy. And I love him. He's growing faster than I can comprehend. I haven't mentioned it before because of two reasons.
a. I miscarried previously so I'm a little gunshy about big announcements.
b. I do believe that my son should get to make his own digital persona one day.

I don't really know how to separate him from who I am now as a person. Like his father before him, he has completely changed who I am. I'm still trying to figure out where all the boundaries of sharing are going to be for me. I know that this learning process of being a new mom is very much about me, but it will always also be about him now. So bear with me as I try to figure this out.
I'm pretty sure he's doubled in size since we took this VERY goofy looking photo.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Happenings and Whatnots

I am entering the doldrums, I do believe...
I've recently reached a moment of completeness in the tasks I set for myself. And after a brief period of satisfaction, I find that I'm becoming bored. So, I'm going to have to find something else to keep me occupied. Maybe some arts and crafts... some regular cleaning and chores...a bit of TV watching... maybe some really good (complicated) meal planning...Maybe none of that. I'm just not sure what I want to do at the moment.
It's a nice problem to have.

Monday, December 26, 2011

The Holidays

The last few months have been... eventful. The combination of holidays and other life changing events made the time move right along. I also stopped reading blogs at work, which really put a dent in my writing time as well. Anyway, Christmas has finally come and gone. And I have lots of fun new things to use and find storage space for and enjoy. I've been very blessed and healthy this year. Things have occasionally been rough, but overall life is good. I am VERY lucky and I'm incredibly grateful for the life I've been able to make for myself. I hope that this next year is as generous in it's bounty...
I hope you've all had wonderful holidays and a great end to 2011.

Monday, October 24, 2011

Update.


I’m very slowly getting better at the waiting game. I just have to remind myself that eventually it will all pan out the way it’s supposed to happen. Right?
It is the way it is. Therefore that’s the way it should be. Until I change it. And then THAT’s the way it should be.
“It will be fine.”  That little phrase is my mantra… or my motto. I’m not sure which. I just know that it makes me feel better and calms me down when I start to freak out about possible negative outcomes. And as my husband will surely vouch, anything that calms me down is a good thing. I’ve been waiting to hear back on an interview I had last week. But in the mean time I’ve set up two more appointments this week for some other positions that look pretty good. I find that moving forward really helps me stay in a positive frame of mind. That and keeping busy at home.
So I’ve been working on making sure the little chores get done. Y’know, washing the dishes right after you use them… straightening up the room on the way out of it (our bedroom doesn’t ever seem to benefit here)…picking up little pieces of trash… putting away craft supplies when I’m done. I’ve been doing pretty well. I also went out the other day on my back porch and as I was standing there enjoying the sunshine I noticed that my mint plant (that I thought had completely died) actually had tiny little buds. It’s apparently been warm enough to be growing! 
My sister is coming to visit this week. J I’m hoping to have a few other friends over…. And maybe carve some pumpkins…I think that’s all I’ve got for now. What are you planning on for this week?

Friday, October 14, 2011

The wait is over.


I didn’t get it.

It’s such a long wait just to hear bad news… And I know I’m not the only one. Though to be honest being rejected from a job application isn’t nearly as bad as being rejected after an audition. There’s something cold and calculated about job hunting.

For example: In the last month I’ve gotten 3 interviews (none of which worked out) and applied for over 70 jobs. 20 of those went to other people. I had 30 applications left as of this morning. After I heard the bad/sad news I went and applied to 20 more jobs. It really is personal. So the only thing I can do to balance out the bad is create more opportunity for good to happen. It’s hard work job hunting. But I know the right/BESTEST job is out there just waiting for me.

It’s all just a statistics game. The more resume’s I send out, the more likely it is I’ll get an interview. The more I mention the fact I’m job hunting to people around me, the more I’ll be referred to likely offices. It’s a patience game. Last time it took me 6 months. I’m hoping for a little shorter time frame this time around, but I’ll take what I can get. 

And to be fair I'm only looking at the U. So it does narrow my options a bit. I'm trying to stay realistic and optimistic at the same time. It can be quite the balancing act some days.

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Housewife-ish duties...


I am proud to announce that I’ve been AWESOME at making dinner this week. Well, at least at planning dinner. Peter may have made some of the meals… For those of you who care to know: Monday we had baked trout with a sour cream sauce, asparagus risotto, and sautéed broccoli. Tuesday we had leftover asparagus risotto, asparagus with hollandaise sauce, steak, and baked potatoes. Wednesday we had baked parmesan chicken, baked potatoes, and sautéed garlic spinach.  I’ve been trying to limit my carbs… can you tell? And tonight… maybe fajitas. Without tortillas.

Nope. Scratch that. Peter will go grab some tortillas so we can do fajitas! Hurrah!

Anyway… the rest of the week is probably going to be all over the place due to Peter going to the “Game in a Day” competition at GEEX. I wish I could go too, but I have to work. L And now that our basement is all patched and repainted, I have major plans for moving furniture. If I can finagle it I want to make it to IKEA as well. I’m not sure that’s going to be manageable though. We’ll see. I still haven’t heard anything on the job front. It’s only been a week though. I’m trying to minimize the possible damage by imagining that I didn’t get the job. That and I’m continuing to apply for other positions. I’m still hoping I got it… but … that’s … yeah. It makes me too anxious to think about it at this point.

So I’m going to plan about reorganizing furniture, finally (maybe) hanging pictures, sleeping in, going to the library, and generally not doing anything else this weekend. What are your grand plans for the weekend?

Monday, October 10, 2011

Still...

I wish I had awesome news on the job front. Unfortunately I'm still waiting to hear.
On the upside, the interview did go really well. But then, I've always interviewed well. So I never know really what to take away from that. Hopefully I'll hear something by tomorrow. 

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Moving on up. I hope.


There are things in life that we just can’t control.
I can accept that. I deal with it rather well in fact.
My personal mantra just happens to be, “It will all be okay.”
From my point of view: One way or another the end results will be survivable. Even death.

But the little things in life that we can control are numerous. We make small decisions and big decisions every day. I’ve decided that I need to find a new job that will work better with my family life. That is my decision. SO the frustrations that come with job hunting are my fault. And at any point I could change my mind and decide to keep my current job. Nothing is forcing me to change. I am choosing my change. That is the way that I’m comfortable living my life. I move forward at my pace and I hope that I make the best decisions possible. But sometimes when I’m standing at the edge of the unknown (or just prior to a job interview tomorrow) staring into the abyss of change, sometimes I wonder why I do this to myself.
Then I remember that coasting along isn’t fun. It’s not easy. I don’t grow that way. I don’t progress in life. I stagnate. I’ve gone about as far as my current job will take me. I need something more. So I’ll take a step into the darkness and see which direction the path leads. If I proceed with caution, hopefully it won’t be over a cliff. 

Friday, September 30, 2011

Procrastination Station

I've been parked here for a while now.
I keep looking for something interesting to read. Something to distract me and occupy another bit of time would be nice... And all the while I could be writing that something myself. I kept putting it off and yet the inevitable occurred and here I am. Writing.
To tell you all the things that have happened recently would take forever.
So instead, here are the things I'm looking forward to doing.
I get to visit with some of my sisters this weekend!
By this time next month I'm hoping to have purchased plane tickets for my youngest sister and my mom to come visit me at the end of January next year! I'm also hoping to figure out how to get the rest of my siblings and my dad out here. It's a long trip, but I'm hoping we can work all the details out.
I'm glad it's cooling off outside and now that my landlord put screens in my living room windows, I can enjoy it!!!
It's almost hot chocolate season. I need to restock my peppermint hot chocolate stash.
The holidays are right around the corner and I'm determined to make them stress free.
Those are some of the things I'm looking forward to now that fall is here...
What are you enjoying about the new season?

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

I have been slacking

However in my defense a lot of things have happened. It's hard to live life and document it at the same time I find.
My mom came to visit.
I'm an aunt now.
My sister lives less than an hour away from me now instead of 2 1/2 days.
I've decided to start job hunting for something a little more flexible.
I bought a couch!
My house is FINALLY starting to be put together and finished. Just a few more projects to go.
September is halfway over and fall is imminent. I'm loving the cooler weather, though I wish we could still have longer days. Life has such interesting tradeoffs.
I'm trying to start cooking more. Again.
I think it's the cooler weather allowing me to turn on the stove/oven that makes cooking more palatable.

Fall. It's the preparation for all those new beginnings.

Monday, August 29, 2011

Monday Money Managing

So you know those months where unexpected expenditures crop up right and left?
I'm in one of those months. And it's one more week until we get paid again. It's not that we're exactly struggling with it, but it's still unexpected. They were fun/necessary/good things to pay for, but it doesn't leave my bank acct looking quite so happy.
Lots of things in life aren't free. I know that. And I'm used to it. I just have to remind myself occasionally of what things I'm really glad I have the ability to facilitate.
Things like paying rent and all my other bills.
Helping my mom come visit my sister and her new baby.
Getting friends together to reminisce over old times.
 Buying a new couch. Maybe.

And because of the other things I'm doing with my monies, I'm debating that last item. Not "if" I should buy it, but when should I buy it? I've put it off due to lack of a place to put it, but now that I have room for it, I'm not sure we're in the best place financially to get it. We could wait for a few more paychecks, but I have a feeling the rate of use of our living room would significantly decrease. I'm not sure that's really a problem though. Only if we have visitors over.
I'm not sure what I'm going to do, but I do know this. We'll manage.

Oh and do I get this one? or this one? or this one?

Thursday, August 25, 2011

I dunno

I keep waiting for something interesting to happen on the internet... something along the lines of that scene in "The Incredibles" where the little neighbor kid exclaims, "Something Amazing, I guess!"
I keep on waiting.

In other news, I'm starting to look for a new job. Yup. That's right. I'm going to try find something a bit more flexible... leaning back towards shift work after a very long stint in the regular 8-5 work zone. Though honestly the longer I'm in the work force, the more I realize that I really dislike traditional jobs. I just don't last very long before I'm bored or frustrated with others around me.
Life and bills require that I work. Mostly because I don't want to live with family. Living with other people is always cheaper it seems, but it is definitely emotionally harder. So if I want to keep on living the way I am (independently) then I have to work. I refuse however to be unhappy in my employment. I'll find something that works well for me and keeps me emotionally stable and sane. So watch out for updates on the job hunt!
I hope the new school year is treating everyone else really well. So far for me it's made the public transit in the morning very unreliable. Yay.

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Turning into Fall

I'm gradually noticing the shorter days and the cooler nights.
But more importantly, you know fall is here because school is starting again. There are new students everywhere. Most people look a bit lost. The walkways and buses are getting crowded again. Summer is almost over and I hardly feel like it began this year. It's been a busy season with work and play overlapping at every possible chance it seems. We're halfway through August and all of a sudden there's only 4 months left in the year. Months that will probably fly by. There's at least one major holiday each month and we all know that holiday weekends really help the time fly by too quickly.
I'm looking forward to establishing a new routine and hopefully getting out a bit more to enjoy the fall weather before it turns really cold.

Monday, August 15, 2011

OH!

So I believe it's going to work this time! What a lovely surprise.
After a few weeks of intermittent posting due to technical glitches and a week of being violently congested I'm back.
And of course as soon as I got back to work last week, my computer developed another virus. Or 70. Apparently the old virus program wasn't working so well. But now, with my sparklingly clean hard drive and updated systems, apparently Blogger has decided to work for me as well. I just hope this serendipitous moment lasts.
So quick update: The house is still a mess, but we're slowly getting the pantry in order. Pictures will come later I swear! Just a few more weeks and I'll have a living room! And hopefully a new nephew.
 But more importantly I'll be able to get a couch and finish decorating my living room. :)
School is about to start up again in a week or two, so I have to prepare myself to lose dear hubbin to an onslaught of PhD schoolwork. On my end work is actually calming down so that will be a nice break. I really need to get on the ball with projects and keeping up with housework. I have two aprons to sew, a few paintings to finish, pictures to hang, and a few more rooms to finish organizing. On the upside, I've had a very relaxing and lazy summer.
I hope that as we get ready for summer to end I can transition as gracefully into fall as summer did...